
No I'm still here, was just thinking in retrospect that I was going to do a quick post and it turned into a "real" debate... anyways
It's not a document but a book, I borrowed it from a friend so I can't exactly remember the title now... something like "Liturgy in the Catholic Church". I can find out the exact title for you if you want, must just get in touch with my friend again. Just let me know.
Liturgical abuses like us ALL saying the entire Psalm, or the "Blessed are you Lord...", we're not suppose to say that. We all have different parts in the Mass, and neither the laity or the clergy may change anything in the prescribed texts (as per the General Instructions for the Roman Missal).
And things like children running around during the Children's Mass (and sitting with their backs to the tabernacle... especially when the Blessed Sacrament is put back). As I've said I think that the Children's Mass is an absolute BRILLIANT idea, but we shouldn't lose site of the fact that Holy Mass is still being celebrated, which requires order, dignity and reverence. I'm not at all suggestion we go back to Pre Vatican II Masses, but the Church time and time again (especially Benedict XVI) speaks about keep the Liturgy solemn and holy.
I also quite enjoy us saying a "real" mystery of faith, as you said. And I do admit we are all human, and everyone makes mistakes. The church is afterall made up of humans who sin. WE aren't a church of saints... although we all aim and try to be
I suppose what really bothers me is that Mass is not as solemn as the Church expects us to be. I find those music videos extremely intrustive, impersonal and cheezy! Youth Mass I really think has a great thing going for it, and they should keep up thier work. They are really an excellent group of faithful people

I was reading the Constitution of the Sacred Liturgy again this afternoon (instead of studying... hehehe) and once again I was drawn to what it requires from us:
1) Holiness, solemnity, reverence
2) Gregorian Chant was never suppose to be chucked out of the Church, but is the official music form of the Latin Rite
3) Contemprary music is definitely allowed... but the Church once again states is must allow for faithful participation, not be against Catholic doctrine, must be drawn from the Scripture and/or Liturgical sources AND MUST NEVER take away from the beauty, mystery and solemnity of the Mass